writing time

omg, the last time i blogged was half a year ago! i think if i don't get started again, this blog will be pronounced dead soon.. i am still v in love w my iphone, but sometimes i know i m missing something for not writing. i know tat. i'll have to make time for this. sometimes you need some fresh air to be away from work, over-scheduled lifestyle, gym workout, food, TV, noises and complaints. i call this alone-time aka peacefulness aka word therapy. haha i actually dunno wat i m talking about.

yesterday, after my usual step class. as usual, i went shower and when i came out, the changing room left a few people. I blew dry (half dry) my hair and saw L still wrapped in towel slowly putting on some face care product. for the first time i asked her, do you have to work tomoro? she said yes! always so smiley, she said she likes to take her own sweet time. and then she LOL. I said, you look so relax, ppl think you don have to work the next day. and the journey back to her house is about 45 min.. she said i am lucky coz staying so near town. i told her sometimes good things will come to an end. bad things will not last too long too. we just have to manage it well. she was so stunt and said no no no, u must not think tat way. she believed if we think that bad things will come then it will really come. yea, i like her attitude towards life. totally positive. actually both are not wrong. it's just how you look at things. positive ppl will always see change/ unexpected scenario as challenges while negative ppl will think tat they are "suay". and then curse and swear.. so, all in all, we must always shower ourselves with loads of motivations and positive thoughts!

here's a happy song to share!

私奔到月球

作詞：阿信
作曲：阿信
演唱：五月天+陳綺貞

其實妳 是個心狠又手辣 的小偷
我的心 我的呼吸和名字 都偷走

你才是 綁架我的兇手 機車後座的我 吹著風 逃離了平庸

這星球 天天有五十億人 在錯過
多幸運 有妳一起看星星 在爭寵

這一刻 不再問為什麼 不再去猜測人和人 心和心 有什麼不同

一二三 牽著手 四五六 抬起頭
七八九 我們私奔到月球
讓雙腳 去騰空 讓我們 去感受
那無憂的真空 那月色純真的感動

當妳說 太聰明往往還是 會寂寞
我笑著 傾聽孤單終結後 的靜默

看月亮 像夜空的瞳孔 靜靜凝視你我 和我們鬧嚷的星球

靠近妳 怎麼突然兩個人 都詞窮
讓心跳 像是野火燎原般 的洶湧

這一刻 讓命運也沉默 讓腳尖劃過天和天 地和地 緣分的宇宙

鱼儿想飞

"a merry heart does good like medicine, but a broken spirit dries the bones."~anonymous

鱼
词：陈绮贞
曲：陈绮贞
编曲：钟成虎;e陈柏州;林弈妏;陈绮贞


我坐在椅子上 看日出复活
我坐在夕阳里 看城市的衰弱
我摘下一片叶子 让它代替我
观察离开后的变化

曾经狂奔 舞蹈 贪婪的说话
随着冷的湿的心
腐化

带不走的丢不掉的 让大雨侵蚀吧
让它推向我在边界
奋不顾身挣扎

如果有一个怀抱 勇敢不计代价
别让我飞 将我温柔豢养

我坐在椅子上 看日出复活
我坐在夕阳里 看城市的衰弱
我摘下一片叶子 让它代替我 观察离开后的变化

曾经狂奔 舞蹈 贪婪的说话
随着冷的湿的心
腐化

带不走的留不下的 我全都交付它
让它捧着我在手掌 自由自在挥洒

如果有一个世界 混浊的不像话
原谅我飞
曾经眷恋太阳

带不走的丢不掉的 让大雨侵蚀吧
让它推向我在边界
奋不顾身挣扎

如果有一个世界混浊的不像话
我会疯狂的爱上

带不走的留不下的
我全都交付它
让它捧着我在手掌
自由自在挥洒

如果有一个怀抱 勇敢不计代价
别让我飞 将我温柔豢养
原谅我飞
曾经眷恋太阳

心静自然凉

俗话说，今日不知明日事。一个炎热的中午，能独自享受麦当劳室内的冷气，吃着香脆的chicken nuggets，听着音乐，看着书本；这也算是人生一大乐趣呀。

恋爱症候群

LOL good lyrics :P


黄舒骏 - 恋爱症候群

关于恋爱症候群的发生原因
至今仍然是最大的一个谜
不管性别年龄职业体重学历长相和血型
没有一个人可以免疫
有些专家学者研究后相信
恋爱是内分泌失调所引起
却有别人认为恋爱属于滤过性病毒
象感冒无药可救但会自动痊愈
不管你同不同意
自古到今许多例子证明
恋爱不但是一种病态
它还可能是一种变态
一般发病后的初期反应
会开始是改变一些生活习性
洗澡洗得特别干净
刷牙刷得特别用力
半夜突然爬起来
弹钢琴
有人每天站在阳台对路人傻笑
有人突然疯疯癫癫 突然很安静
有人一脸痴呆对折镜子咬着指甲打喷嚏
有人对小狗骂三字经
女人突然改变发型
男人开始每天练着哑铃
食欲不振歇斯底里四肢萎缩神经过敏发抖抽筋
都出现在这时期
随着病情越来越变本加厉
人会变得格外敏感和恶心
写的说的唱的都想天才诗人一般才华洋溢
越肉麻越饿觉得有趣
有人恋爱之后每天躲在厕所哭泣
有人开记者会宣布恋爱的消息
有人总是喜欢两个人躲在黑漆漆的地方
象做了不可告人的事情
每天忙着找人算命
挖空心思改变自己配合对方的习性
把每天都当作纪念日
把自己当作纪念品
每天漫无目的腻在一起
言不及义也觉得好有趣
走着坐着躺着趴着都形影不离
象是两人三脚又象连体婴
心里想的只有爱你爱你爱你爱你
也不管家里米缸有没有米
也不管路上有人示威抗议
只管爱你
心里想的只有爱你爱你爱你爱你
也不管海峡两岸统一问题
也不管衣索匹亚多少难民
只管爱你
经过一段轰轰烈烈热恋时期
不久就会渐渐开始痊愈
两人开始互相厌倦
互相攻击对方缺点
所有甜蜜都随风而去
然后开始从错觉和误解中清醒
惊讶自己为何如此不聪明
为了爱情不管一切
不顾父母朋友姐妹兄弟
开始感到后悔不已
然后开始感到疲惫沉闷气喘心悸牙痛头痛梦呓
然后是精神不济瞳孔放大脾气暴躁四肢麻痹
终于受不了要分离
虽然结果颇令人伤心
了解之后也没什么了不起
爱情终究是握不住的云
只是我想要告诉你
在我落寞的岁月里
你的温柔解脱我的孤寂
带给我深深的狂喜
如此颤动我的心灵
轻轻诉说爱你爱你爱你爱你
不管是黑夜或是黎明
不管是梦中还是清醒
深深爱你
多么幸福
让我遇见你呜……

meaning behind

how true hehe

死尸个案

最近新洲发生了很多浮尸案件.令人心寒.

有很多宗是自杀身亡的.有些还是怀恨死的.有一对母子甚至穿着红衣溺毙,是想回来复仇吧.好可怜.她可知道心里的仇恨只是在伤害自己;恨他人就是把他人的过错往自己身上抗.

一种米养百种人.有时候,真是不明白为什么好好的一个人会这么容易想轻生.生命短暂,不是应该好好珍惜吗? 人生本来就充满喜怒哀乐.有很多事是明明中注定的.事情发生了,再悲惨,再伤痛,只要保持正确的态度,学会爬起来,你会发现你可以变得更坚强.活得比以前更好就是对伤害你的人最好的报复,对自己最好的礼物.

我发现我的华文真的是退步得快不行了.所以人家说东西不用都会生锈或坏掉.真是千真万切.(因为我真的花很长的时间来想一个句子.)

这首歌跟死尸一点关系也没有.是一部电影的主题曲　：Ｐ

好喜欢这部电影.还没看的人,千万别错过了：）

【那些年，我們一起追的女孩】電影主題曲《那些年》
演唱：胡夏／作曲：木村充利／作詞：九把刀

又回到最初的起點
記憶中妳青澀的臉
我們終於來到了這一天
桌墊下的老照片
無數回憶連結
今天男孩要赴女孩最後的約

又回到最初的起點
呆呆地站在鏡子前
笨拙繫上紅色領帶的結
將頭髮梳成大人模樣
穿上一身帥氣西裝
等會兒見妳一定比想像美

好想再回到那些年的時光
回到教室座位前後　故意討妳溫柔的罵
黑板上排列組合　妳捨得解開嗎
誰與誰坐他又愛著她


那些年錯過的大雨
那些年錯過的愛情
好想擁抱妳　擁抱錯過的勇氣
曾經想征服全世界
到最後回首才發現
這世界滴滴點點全部都是妳

那些年錯過的大雨
那些年錯過的愛情
好想告訴妳　告訴妳我沒有忘記
那天晚上滿天星星
平行時空下的約定
再一次相遇我會緊緊抱著妳
緊緊抱著妳

Optimism vs pessimism

What’s emerging, from studies like this, is that both optimism and pessimism have important roles to play in people’s lives.

Being optimistic allows people to pursue their goals in a positive way: to dream a bigger and better dream, which they can work their way towards. Optimists also seem to respond better to positive feedback, and part of being optimistic may be generating this feedback for themselves, i.e. thinking positive thoughts.

On the other hand being pessimistic may help people reduce their natural anxiety and to perform better. Also, pessimists seem to respond better to negative feedback. They like to hear what the problems were, so they can correct them. Again, part of why pessimists generate these sorts of negative thoughts is that it helps them perform better.

So it’s different strokes for different folks. Optimism and pessimism aren’t just accidents; this evidence suggests they are two different, but effective, strategies of coping with a complex and unpredictable world. ~jeremy dean

After reading the article above, i've got this conclusion - the writer is an optimist. i m saying this becoz i personally think that pessimists have this patterns of thinking that make almost all events turn out to be negative. they believe tat one mistake means more will come, and mistakes in other areas will all linked up like they are inevitable. if they think it's gonna be negative, it will turn out negatively. it's all in their head. u get wat u wish for.

on the contrary, an optimist will turn a negative situation into a positive one. becoz every situation, be it good or bad has something about it tat u can learn to be stronger, better or be thankful for. remember, anything that's not life threatening is not tat serious afterall. do u agree w me?

Quote of the day
A pessimist sees only the dark side of the clouds, and mopes; a philosopher sees both sides, and shrugs; an optimist doesn't see the clouds at all - he's walking on them. ~Leonard Louis Levinson

Michelle Branch - "Breathe"
Writer: BRANCH, MICHELLE / SHANKS, JOHN

I've been driving for an hour
Just talking to the rain
You say I've been driving you crazy
And its keeping you away
So just give me one good reason
Tell me why I should stay
Cause I don't want to waste another moment
In saying things we never meant to say

And I take it just a little bit
I, hold my breath and count to ten
I, I've been waiting for a chance to let you in

If I just breathe
Let it fill the space between
I'll know everything is alright
Breathe
Every little piece of me
You'll see
Everything is alright
If I just breathe

Well it's all so overrated
In not saying how you feel
So you end up watching chances fade
And wondering what's real

And I give you just a little time
I, wonder if you realize
I've been waiting till I see it in your eyes

If I just breathe
Let it fill the space between
I'll know everything is alright
Breathe,
Every little piece of me
You'll see
Everything is alright
If I just breathe
Breathe

So I whisper and I'm,
Hoping you hear me
Do you hear me?

If I just breathe
Let it fill the space between
I'll know everything is alright
Breathe,
Every little piece of me
You'll see
Everything is alright

I've been driving for an hour
Just talking to the rain