Tuesday 13 December 2011

Saturday 3 December 2011

死尸个案

最近新洲发生了很多浮尸案件.令人心寒.

有很多宗是自杀身亡的.有些还是怀恨死的.有一对母子甚至穿着红衣溺毙,是想回来复仇吧.好可怜.她可知道心里的仇恨只是在伤害自己;恨他人就是把他人的过错往自己身上抗.

一种米养百种人.有时候,真是不明白为什么好好的一个人会这么容易想轻生.生命短暂,不是应该好好珍惜吗? 人生本来就充满喜怒哀乐.有很多事是明明中注定的.事情发生了,再悲惨,再伤痛,只要保持正确的态度,学会爬起来,你会发现你可以变得更坚强.活得比以前更好就是对伤害你的人最好的报复,对自己最好的礼物.

我发现我的华文真的是退步得快不行了.所以人家说东西不用都会生锈或坏掉.真是千真万切.(因为我真的花很长的时间来想一个句子.)

这首歌跟死尸一点关系也没有.是一部电影的主题曲 :P

好喜欢这部电影.还没看的人,千万别错过了:)

【那些年,我們一起追的女孩】電影主題曲《那些年
演唱:胡夏/作曲:木村充利/作詞:九把刀

又回到最初的起點
記憶中妳青澀的臉
我們終於來到了這一天
桌墊下的老照片
無數回憶連結
今天男孩要赴女孩最後的約

又回到最初的起點
呆呆地站在鏡子前
笨拙繫上紅色領帶的結
將頭髮梳成大人模樣
穿上一身帥氣西裝
等會兒見妳一定比想像美

好想再回到那些年的時光
回到教室座位前後 故意討妳溫柔的罵
黑板上排列組合 妳捨得解開嗎
誰與誰坐他又愛著她


那些年錯過的大雨
那些年錯過的愛情
好想擁抱妳 擁抱錯過的勇氣
曾經想征服全世界
到最後回首才發現
這世界滴滴點點全部都是妳

那些年錯過的大雨
那些年錯過的愛情
好想告訴妳 告訴妳我沒有忘記
那天晚上滿天星星
平行時空下的約定
再一次相遇我會緊緊抱著妳
緊緊抱著妳

Thursday 1 December 2011

Optimism vs pessimism

What’s emerging, from studies like this, is that both optimism and pessimism have important roles to play in people’s lives.

Being optimistic allows people to pursue their goals in a positive way: to dream a bigger and better dream, which they can work their way towards. Optimists also seem to respond better to positive feedback, and part of being optimistic may be generating this feedback for themselves, i.e. thinking positive thoughts.

On the other hand being pessimistic may help people reduce their natural anxiety and to perform better. Also, pessimists seem to respond better to negative feedback. They like to hear what the problems were, so they can correct them. Again, part of why pessimists generate these sorts of negative thoughts is that it helps them perform better.

So it’s different strokes for different folks. Optimism and pessimism aren’t just accidents; this evidence suggests they are two different, but effective, strategies of coping with a complex and unpredictable world.
~jeremy dean

After reading the article above, i've got this conclusion - the writer is an optimist. i m saying this becoz i personally think that pessimists have this patterns of thinking that make almost all events turn out to be negative. they believe tat one mistake means more will come, and mistakes in other areas will all linked up like they are inevitable. if they think it's gonna be negative, it will turn out negatively. it's all in their head. u get wat u wish for.

on the contrary, an optimist will turn a negative situation into a positive one. becoz every situation, be it good or bad has something about it tat u can learn to be stronger, better or be thankful for. remember, anything that's not life threatening is not tat serious afterall. do u agree w me?

Quote of the day
A pessimist sees only the dark side of the clouds, and mopes; a philosopher sees both sides, and shrugs; an optimist doesn't see the clouds at all - he's walking on them. ~Leonard Louis Levinson

Michelle Branch - "Breathe"
Writer: BRANCH, MICHELLE / SHANKS, JOHN

I've been driving for an hour
Just talking to the rain
You say I've been driving you crazy
And its keeping you away
So just give me one good reason
Tell me why I should stay
Cause I don't want to waste another moment
In saying things we never meant to say

And I take it just a little bit
I, hold my breath and count to ten
I, I've been waiting for a chance to let you in

If I just breathe
Let it fill the space between
I'll know everything is alright
Breathe
Every little piece of me
You'll see
Everything is alright
If I just breathe

Well it's all so overrated
In not saying how you feel
So you end up watching chances fade
And wondering what's real

And I give you just a little time
I, wonder if you realize
I've been waiting till I see it in your eyes

If I just breathe
Let it fill the space between
I'll know everything is alright
Breathe,
Every little piece of me
You'll see
Everything is alright
If I just breathe
Breathe

So I whisper and I'm,
Hoping you hear me
Do you hear me?

If I just breathe
Let it fill the space between
I'll know everything is alright
Breathe,
Every little piece of me
You'll see
Everything is alright

I've been driving for an hour
Just talking to the rain