how much is too much?

when you hang someone upside down?

nobody really knows b'coz it's up to individual..

quote of the day - life is easy when u look back on it. It's even easier when u look forward to it.

黄小琥 - 没那么简单

黄小琥 - 没那么简单
作词：姚若龙 作曲：萧煌奇

没那么简单
就能找到 聊得来的伴
尤其是在 看过了那么多的背叛
总是不安 只好强悍
谁谋杀了我的浪漫

没那么简单
就能去爱 别的全不看
变得实际 也许好也许坏各一半
不爱孤单 一久也习惯
不用担心谁 也不用被谁管

感觉快乐就忙东忙西
感觉累了就放空自己
别人说的话 随便听一听
自己作决定
不想拥有太多情绪
一杯红酒配电影
在周末晚上 关上了手机
舒服窝在沙发里

相爱没有那么容易
每个人有他的脾气
过了爱作梦的年纪
轰轰烈烈不如平静
幸福没有那么容易
才会特别让人着迷
什么都不懂的年纪
曾经最掏心
所以最开心 曾经

想念最伤心
但却最动心 的记忆

容祖兒-我的驕傲

我的驕傲

isn't my baby beautiful? ^_^

i m home

Diddy Dirty Money – Coming Home Lyrics

[Dirty Money - Chorus]
I’m coming home
I’m coming home
tell the World I’m coming home
Let the rain wash away all the pain of yesterday
I know my kingdom awaits and they’ve forgiven my mistakes
I’m coming home, I’m coming home
tell the World that I’m coming

[Diddy]
Back where I belong, yeah I never felt so strong
(I’m back baby)
I feel like there’s nothing that I can’t try
and if you with me put your hands high
(put your hands high)
If you ever lost a light before, this ones for you
and you, the dreams are for you

I hear “The Tears of a Clown”
I hate that song
I feel like they talking to me when it comes on
another day another Dawn
another Keisha, nice to meet ya, get the math I’m gone
what am I ‘posed to do when the club lights come on
its easy to be Puff, its harder to be Sean
what if the twins ask why I aint marry their mom (why, damn!)
how do I respond?
what if my son stares with a face like my own
and says he wants to be like me when he’s grown
sh-t! But I aint finished growing
another night the inevitible prolongs
another day another Dawn
just tell Taneka and Taresha I’ll be better in the morn’
another lie that I carry on
I need to get back to the place I belong

[Dirty Money - Chorus]

[Diddy - Verse 2]
“A house is Not a Home“, I hate this song
is a house really a home when your loved ones are gone
and n-ggas got the nerve to blame you for it
and you know you woulda took the bullet if you saw it
but you felt it and still feel it
and money can’t make up for it or conceal it
but you deal with it and you keep ballin’
pour out some liquor, play ball and we keep ballin’
baby we’ve been living in sin ’cause we’ve been really in love
but we’ve been living as friends
so you’ve been a guest in your own home
it’s time to make your house your home
pick up your phone, come on

[Dirty Money - Chorus]

[Diddy - Verse 3]
“Ain’t No Stopping Us Now“, I love that song
whenever it comes on it makes me feel strong
I thought I told y’all that we won’t stop
we back cruising through Harlem, Viso blocks
it’s what made me, saved me, drove me crazy
drove me away than embraced me
forgave me for all of my shortcomings
welcome to my homecoming
yeah it’s been a long time coming
lot of fights, lot of scars, lot of bottles
lot of cars, lot of ups, lot of downs
made it back, lost my dog (I miss you BIG)
and here I stand, a better man! (a better man)
Thank you Lord (Thank you Lord)

[Dirty Money - Chorus]

laundry day & house clean-up day

let's get started!

it's a beautiful saturday

met up w C.X. for lunch. as usual she's wearing skirt & heels. and i was in my t-shirt n flats.

she asked me, "how come you're not vain? u r always in t shirts.."

i laughed, "i am vain too. just not as vain as u."

she continued,"u shud dress up more often."

i said,"yes, i think so too. i ll put that in one of my resolutions."

becoz i beliv when ppl dress up and try to look the best of themselves they feel good too ^.^

keep thinking, keep thinking

another pull out quote to bear in mind :)

"..Nietzsche once said: "Everything in the world displeased me; but what displeased me most was my displeasure with everything.""

pull out quote

"Time stops for no one, and if we allow ourselves to focus on the negative we might miss out on some really amazing things that life has to offer. We can't go back to the past, we can only take the lessons that we have learned and the experiences that we have gained from it and move on. It is because of the heartaches, as well as the hardships, that in the end help to make us a stronger person." ~Shannon Spaunburg

lesson of the day

"Watch your thoughts, for they become words. Choose your words, for they become actions. Understand your actions, for they become habits. Study your habits, for they will become your character. Develop your character, for it becomes your destiny." ~ anonymous

Peace

情歌 - 梁静茹

詞：陳沒
曲：伍冠諺
編曲：陳建騏

時光是琥珀 淚一滴滴被反鎖
情書再不朽 也磨成沙漏
青春的上游 白雲飛走蒼狗與海鷗
閃過的念頭 潺潺的溜走

命運好幽默 讓愛的人都沉默
一整個宇宙 換一顆紅豆
回憶如困獸 寂寞太久而漸漸溫柔
放開了拳頭 反而更自由

慢動作 繾綣膠捲 重播默片 定格一瞬間
我們在 告別的演唱會 說好不再見

你寫給我 我的第一首歌
你和我 十指緊扣 默寫前奏
可是那然後呢

還好我有 我這一首情歌
輕輕的 輕輕哼著 哭著笑著
我的 天長地久

長鏡頭 越拉越遠 越來越遠 事隔好幾年
我們在 懷念的演唱會 禮貌的吻別

陪我唱歌 清唱你的情歌
捨不得 短短副歌 心還熱著
也該告一段落

還好我有 我下一首情歌
生命宛如 靜靜的 相擁的河
永遠 天長地久

listening to fish leong's soothing voice i find moments of 'peace'...

Life

life is journey. a journey full of sweet bitterness. if there's no bitterness you'd not be able to taste the sweetness in it.

quotes from the book "learning from the heart"

author: Daniel Gottlieb

".. our love for one another was big enuf to tolerate rage n frustration n tears. our love for one another is not always pretty. Ghandhi called love 'the prerogative of the brave', and it does take courage to open to the possibility of being vulnerable, being wounded, and being v afraid for ourselves n for those we care about."

"Love can sometimes be complicated and confusing. it's not always warm and secure. But it's always intimate and fundamental - the very fabric of our lives."

".. spend 24 hours without sharing a word of gossip. don't say anything negative about anyone, and dun say anything to anyone that has the potential to hurt them. do that for 24 hours n see how u feel at the end of the day."

Jay Sean- I'm Gone

I'm Gone

by Jay Sean

I don't want to have to see you happy.

I can't even bare to see you smile.

Now-a-days I can't look in your eyes

Well I can but it takes a while to show

Told a lot of white lies to hide it all.

But they're beginning to break me down

Though I promise it's over now.

I'm gone.

I don't blame you at all.

'Cause after all the things that you did for me

I got beaten by temptation

I'm gone.

Girl you're better off alone.

I don't want you to see the truth in me.

I'm gone.

Try my best to keep it all together.

Tryna take it back to where we were.

Never been to good at keeping secrets

I'll give you reasons but for what it's worth

Lemme go.

What the hell would make you look at me the same?

Used to say "we're unbreakable."

But I just went & changed it all.

See if I told you?

Could you live with that?

If I told you?

Could you live with that?

If I told you

I couldn't live with that! I couldn't live with that!

Noooo!

I'd rather give you no excuses at all.

I'm gone.

I don't blame you at all.

'Cause after all the things that you did for me

Got beaten by temptation

I'm gone.

Girl you're better off alone.

I don't want you to see the truth in me.

You gave everything & honestly it's every fault of mine.

To beg you for forgiveness just seems wrong.

See leaving you is one thing

But you've got to realize:

Some things are best unspoken

So please don't ask me why!

Ohhhh

I'm gone.

I don't blame you at all.

'Cause after all the things that you did for me

Got beaten by temptation

I'm gone.

Girl you're better off alone.

I don't want you to see the truth in me

That's why I'm gone

I'm gone

I'm gone

Byeee

I'm gone.

元若藍-我好了

我好了

作词：陈静楠

作曲：方文良

编曲：吴俊毅

刪掉所有你的訊息　算是我的回應
桌面換成風景圖片　封鎖對你想念
忘了分手後第幾天　我被孤單吵醒
沒有誰能救我　除了我　能解救自己

不怕被抹黑的天空　雨後會有彩虹
不怕流出淚的眼睛　哭過會有笑容
經過我們逛過的街　我不再繞路了
因為當我難過　會記得　你要我好好過

流著眼淚哭過　狠狠哭過　擦乾就好了
我們一起許願的星　還依然閃爍
學會不哭了　勇敢了　接受了　你不再叫親愛的
想起被你愛過　真的愛過　傷終於好了
我們曾經用了真心　刻在紀念冊
愛的花開了　花謝了　結果呢　才懂得永遠早已停格
停在你愛我　最美時刻

http://v.youku.com/v_show/id_XMjYzNDA3OTI=.html

梁文音 - 最親愛的

最親愛的

作詞：馬嵩惟
作曲：于京廷(阿滾)
編曲：于京廷(阿滾)

沒開口問的 你忐忑反駁
從你的語氣裡聽懂了 不自然的歉疚代表什麼
前座的線索 忍住的顫抖
還想揣摩如果開往他的門口 謊你會怎麼說

＊最親愛的最後最遠離了 最美好的最後最是痛了
　我寧願你是對的
　傷人地拉扯 不如哭著自由

　最親愛的最後最遺憾了 最該走的最後最難轉身
　我真的被愛過了
　你才要我先割捨 不是嗎親愛的

越是抱緊你 越感受裂縫
最害怕的終於成真了 決定卻比想像中還沉重
我多想相信 你也不捨得
否則那些陌生簡訊聲震動了 你怎麼還沒走

＊＊

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wHzIPQbSPwc&feature=related

music theraphy

半情歌

元若蓝

花 接受凋零 风 接受追寻  心的伤还有一些 不要紧  我接受你的决定   你将会被谁抱紧 唱什麼歌哄他开心  我想著天空什麼时候会放晴  地球不曾为谁停一停  你的明天 有多快乐  不是我的 (我的明天 快不快乐 都是我的)  我们的爱是唱一半的歌  时间把习惯换了 伤口愈合  也撤销我再想你的资格 

你的祝福 一半甜的 一半苦的   像我手中冷掉的可可   最最教人残念的总是未完成的  

我只能唱著 一半的歌  (另一半的歌)     也撤销我再想你的资格    你的祝福   一半甜的一半苦的   一半甜的一半苦的     像我手中冷掉的可可   最最教人残念的总是未完成的   我只能唱著一半的歌

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FwNUM0LxHRo

Hero Enrique Iglesias

(Whispered) Let me be your hero

Would you dance if I asked you to dance?
Would you run and never look back
Would you cry if you saw me crying
Would you save my soul tonight?

Would you tremble if I touched your lips?
Would you laugh oh please tell me these
Now would you die for the one you love?
Hold me in your arms tonight?

(Chorus)
I can be you hero baby
I can kiss away the pain
I will stand by you forever
You can take my breath away

Would you swear that you'll always be mine?
Would you lie would you run away
Am I in to deep?
Have I lost my mind?
I don't care you're here tonight

Chorus

I just want to hold you (2x)
Am I in too deep?
Have I lost my mind?
Well I don't care you're here tonight

Chorus (2x)

You can take my breath my breath away
I can be your hero

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=koJlIGDImiU

a day to remember - 070411

finally, my long awaited iphone4 arrived on the 7th of April 2011! my sweet brother went queuing during lunch hour & delivered to my office at about 235pm jus now! so nice of him rite ^.^ coz the customer service officer told him the old line will be terminated once the porting's done within a few hours. and he knew tat i needed my phone badly during peak season..tat's y he brought all the way to mi office :P but in the end the telco sent an sms to my mobile saying the switch would be on the 8th April instead. Oops :X

well all i wanna say now is --i am too excited! Luv ya boy!

today's advice - dun put ur life on hold

someone sent me this today:-

10 Signs It's Time To Quit Your Job

You Aren't Learning Anything New

Yes, you want to know how to do most of your job. But there are also things you want to be learning; otherwise you are not growing professionally. If you have stopped learning at work, it's time to find a job where you will learn new skills and grow professionally.

You Never Have a Day When You Wake Up Excited To Go To Work

If you wake up every morning Monday through Friday and never feel excited to go to work, that is a problem. It means you aren't enjoying your job and it is diminishing your quality of life. If you wake up every day and dread going to work, it's time to consider quitting your job.

You Spend More Time Surfing the Web Than Doing Your Job

When you are at work, you are supposed to be productive. Otherwise, it's a waste of your time and the company's money. If you are bored and surfing the web most of your work day, you may want to think about looking into job options where you'll get more stimulation and responsibilities.

You Don't Like Most of Your Coworkers

There are always one or two coworkers in the office that most people can't stand. But if you don't like most of your coworkers, chances are your days aren't very enjoyable because you have to work with them day in and day out. If you can't stand most of your coworkers, it's time to think about finding a company whose employees you mesh with better.

You Aren't Making Enough Money to Pay Your Bills

If you are working your butt off and not getting paid enough to pay your bills, you might be overqualified and underpaid for your position. Go find a job that pays what you deserve.

You Spend Time Looking For Other Jobs

If you are spending time looking for other jobs while you are on the clock, it's obvious you want to leave your job. So keep looking for new jobs and as soon as you find a good one, take it and run.

You Haven't Gotten a Raise in the Last Two Years

If you work hard and benefit the company you work for, you deserve to be rewarded for that. If your boss hasn't given you a raise in the last two years, ask for one. If he or she says no, get out now.

Your Boss Sucks

Sometimes bosses suck. But if your boss sucks all the time and takes advantage of your time, it's time to find a new job.

The Company Isn't Doing Well

This sign varies from company to company. You must keep in mind that we are in a recession and if sales are down but the company isn't in jeopardy, this sign may not apply to you. However, if business is down to the point where it looks like the company is going to go under, start looking for a new job NOW!

You are Stressed All the Time

You are supposed to enjoy life, not be stressed out all the time. If you spend most of your days stressed about everything that going on at work, you are not at the right job.

i scored 7 out of the 10 above.

When the going gets tough, the tough get going

sometimes i am surprised by my own level of tolerance when it comes to being professional at work

something to ponder upon..

YOU WILL NEVER BE SORRY...

...for thinking before acting.
...for hearing before judging.
...for forgiving your enemies.
...for being candid and frank in love.
...for helping a fallen brother.
...for being honest in business.
...for thinking before speaking.
...for standing by your principles.
...for closing your ears to gossip.
...for bridling a slanderous tongue.
...for harboring pure thoughts.
...for sympathizing with the afflicted.
...for being courteous and kind to all.

insomniac once again..

2 packets of 3 in 1 coffee at 4pm just now = insomnia

so i m still surfing.. (how to wake up later at 6am.. =.=)

anyway.. just feel like posting this awesome beautiful piece (it's even better than the original..)

Just A Dream by Sam Tsui & Christina Grimmie

Original singer: Nelly

I was thinking about u
Thinking bout me
Thinkin bout us (us)
What we gunna be?
Open my eyes, (Yeah)
it was only just a dream...

So I travel back (uh)
down that road (road)
Will u come back? (Uh)
No one knows
I realize (Yeah)
It was only just a dream.

I was at the top and now its like I'm in the basement
Number 1 spot, Now u find a replacement
I swear now I can't take it
Knowing somebody's got my baby

Now you ain't around, baby I can't think
I shoulda put it down, shoulda got that ring
Cuz I can still feel it in the air
See ur pretty face, run my fingers through ur hair

My love of my life, My baby, my wife
u left me, Im tied.
Cuz I knew that it just ain't right

I was thinking about u
Thinking bout me
Thinkin bout us (us)
What we gunna be?
Open my eyes, (Yeah)
it was only just a dream...

So I travel back (Uh)
Down that road (Yeah)
Will u come back? (back)
No one knows
I realize (Yeah)
It was only just a dream.

When I be ridin' man I swear I see your face at every turn
Trying to get my usher on but I can't let it burn
And I just hope u know that u r the only one I yearn for

More and more, I miss u, when will I learn?
Didn't give u all my love
I guess now I got my payback
Now i'm in the club thinking all about u baby
HEY, u were so easy to love
But wait, I guess that love wasn't enough
I'm going through it everytime that I'm alone
And now I'm wishin' wishin' u'd pick up the phone
But u made a decision that u wanted to move on
Cause I was wrong.

I was thinking about u
Thinking bout me
Thinkin bout us (us)
What we gunna be?
Open my eyes, (Yeah)
it was only just a dream...

So I travel back (Uh)
Down that road (road)
Will u come back? (back)
No one knows
I realize (Yeah)
It was only just a dream...

If you ever loved somebody put your hands up
If you ever loved somebody put your hands up
And now they're gone and you wish you could give them everything
X2

I was thinking about u
Thinking bout me
Thinkin bout us (us)
What we gunna be?
Open my eyes, (Yeah)
it was only just a dream...

So I travel back (Uh)
Down that road (road)
Will u come back? (back)
No one knows
I realize (Yeah)
It was only just a dream...
X2

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a2RA0vsZXf8&feature=related