today's advice - use kind & gentle words :)

Taylor Swift - Mean

You, with your words like knives
And swords and weapons that you use against me,
You, have knocked me off my feet again,
Got me feeling like I’m nothing.
You, with your voice like nails on a chalkboard
Calling me out when I’m wounded.
You, pickin’ on the weaker man.

Well you can take me down,
With just one single blow.
But you don’t know, what you don’t know,

Someday, I’ll be living in a big old city,
And all you’re ever gonna be is mean.
Someday, I’ll be big enough so you can’t hit me,
And all you’re ever gonna be is mean.
Why you gotta be so mean?

You, with your switching sides,
And your walk by lies and your humiliation
You, have pointed out my flaws again,
As if I don’t already see them.
I walk with my head down,
Trying to block you out cause I’ll never impress you
I just wanna feel okay again.

I bet you got pushed around,
Somebody made you cold,
But the cycle ends right now,
You can’t lead me down that road,
You don’t know, what you don’t know

Someday, I’ll be, living in a big old city,
And all you’re ever gonna be is mean.
Someday, I’ll be big enough so you can’t hit me,
And all you’re ever gonna be is mean.
Why you gotta be so mean?

And I can see you years from now in a bar,
Talking over a football game,
With that same big loud opinion but,
Nobody’s listening,
Washed up and ranting about the same old bitter things,
Drunk and grumbling on about how I can’t sing.

But all you are is mean,
All you are is mean.
And a liar, and pathetic, and alone in life,
And mean, and mean, and mean, and mean

But someday, I’ll be, living in a big old city,
And all you’re ever gonna be is mean. Yeah,
Someday, I’ll be big enough so you can’t hit me,
And all you’re ever gonna be is mean.
Why you gotta be so ?
Someday, I’ll be, living in a big old city,
And all you’re ever gonna be is mean. Yeah,
Someday, I’ll be big enough so you can’t hit me,
And all you’re ever gonna be is mean.
Why you gotta be so mean?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1CPrzNr1b14

good intention or plain evil?

and like wat this idiom says, the road to Hell is paved with Good Intentions.. i may think tat i have all the right reasons to do it but this also made me the devil..

one thing for sure, a picture really speaks a thousand words :P Well, what is done is done..i m sure 2011 will be a better year!

the ending of 2010 the beginning of 2011

Time flies. today is the last day of the tiger year. and i feel i have not done much during the year except for i've finally tried my first marathon! It's time to self reflect again and rediscover the strength n faith within me in order to gear up for another new year!

hey rabbit, i m looking forward to seeing u soon!

married life vs single life

Being married to me, means you have a special someone to share your everyday life with. you dun have to impress ur luv one by looking perfect or acting perfect all the time. you are comfortable with each other n care for each other in many ways. when u marry the right person, u call he/she ur soulmate. your time is no longer just your time. your time has to be shared between u and ur soulmate. you are committed to each other. and of coz spending time together is supposed to be one of the happiest moment besides spending ur own quality time by urself/ with frens.

Being single to me, means you have the luxury of freedom in living your own life, whether you wan it simple, busy, lazy, challenging or meaningful in your own context. you can spend quality time doing things that you like, spending time with your family and frens. you set your priorities and you live with it with no regrets. you may get some stress from the society becoz being single is not the norm when u reach certain age. you just have to learn how to handle/face it lightly.

you have to be prepared to get mean comments eg. "is there something wrong w him/her? he/she is oredi 37 but not married yet" "eee.... so old who the hell will ever want him/her?" "you re single & ur life is boring" "married life is more interesting"
this is nothing if you know how to take ignorant comments lightly and try to have a more forgiving heart.

to me, whether you re married or single, you need to have an objective in life and lead the life that will make you happy.

i wish ppl around me can be more kind with their words coz mean words can be hurtful especially when it's coming out from someone close..

My Guts vs My Brains

I always have guts to do some unusual things b'coz most of the time i think too highly of myself in handling the consequences after tat. well.. tat's just me.

It's a crazy Christmas.

strange sunday

wow.. realised i havent posted for more than a month!

when i stepped out this morning, it was bright n shine.. then when we were doing step class half way it started pouring..

weather is really unstable & strange today.. i wonder if it's because of the sad incident happened yesterday at step class??

真的希望天天都是好天气 ^_^

好天气 - 韦礼安

今天的云不太合群只留下几朵消息
不想靠近不想休息不太想要下雨
今天的空气有点不太安定
吹动了旋律吹动了安静吹醒了我想你
昨晚那一场倾盆大雨还有
一点痕迹一点可惜等着被晒干净
这样的好天气怎么能没有你
谁为谁的每一天都放晴
等待着好天气再次的遇见你
谁为谁把每一片天都抹干净
抹干净

今天的云不太合群只留下几朵消息
不想要靠近不想要休息不太想要下雨
今天的空气有点不太安定
吹动了旋律吹动了安静吹醒了我想你
昨晚那一场倾盆大雨还有
　 一点痕迹一点可惜等着被晒干净
　 这样的好天气怎么能没有你
　 谁为谁的每一天都放晴
　 等待着好天气再次的遇见你
　 谁为谁把每一片天
　
我们都害怕一路上的风雨又有谁能逃避
　 但是漫长夜后不要忘记雨过后总会天晴
　 这样的好天气怎么能没有你
　 谁为谁的每一天都放晴
　 等待着好天气再次的遇见你
　 谁为谁把每一片天都抹干净
　 抹干净

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SQ2-YDP3cNE&feature=related

雨过天晴~我喜欢

quote of the day - 22 sep 10

‎"You cannot control what happens to you, but you can control your attitude
toward what happens to you, and in that, you will be mastering change rather
than allowing it to master you." - Brian Tracy