Being married to me, means you have a special someone to share your everyday life with. you dun have to impress ur luv one by looking perfect or acting perfect all the time. you are comfortable with each other n care for each other in many ways. when u marry the right person, u call he/she ur soulmate. your time is no longer just your time. your time has to be shared between u and ur soulmate. you are committed to each other. and of coz spending time together is supposed to be one of the happiest moment besides spending ur own quality time by urself/ with frens.
Being single to me, means you have the luxury of freedom in living your own life, whether you wan it simple, busy, lazy, challenging or meaningful in your own context. you can spend quality time doing things that you like, spending time with your family and frens. you set your priorities and you live with it with no regrets. you may get some stress from the society becoz being single is not the norm when u reach certain age. you just have to learn how to handle/face it lightly.
you have to be prepared to get mean comments eg. "is there something wrong w him/her? he/she is oredi 37 but not married yet" "eee.... so old who the hell will ever want him/her?" "you re single & ur life is boring" "married life is more interesting"
this is nothing if you know how to take ignorant comments lightly and try to have a more forgiving heart.
to me, whether you re married or single, you need to have an objective in life and lead the life that will make you happy.
i wish ppl around me can be more kind with their words coz mean words can be hurtful especially when it's coming out from someone close..
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